Thu, 09 Sep
PUSHPA ACHANTA, 23 Apr 2009
Gender And Games

The Pottery Town government school (on Pottery Road where I had volunteered for nearly four months) closed for summer holidays in end March but I often find some children  playing in the ground or loitering around in the neighbourhood. That's hardly surprising as many of their parents and sometimes the kids themselves work and live nearby. But I see only boys - Ramesh, his younger brother Praveen and Narasimha et al almost always! Some of the girls I know, like Pushpalata or Shashikala are definitely busy helping with or doing household chores. But what prevents even a few of the rest from wandering about - distance, security, exclusion? While the first two could be definite reasons, I have witnessed the role of the last particularly with the high schoolers (classes VIII - X). During their Physical Training hours (PT period as the students refer to - some of these usages are timeless, eh?), I have seen the girls walking around the playground or being spectators to the boys' cricket or football skills. Even the rare girl who tries to join them is sidelined or discouraged vociferously. Of course some girls play "kho kho" or similar games at times.

 In fact, I cannot get over the Saturday afternoon when little Dhanalaxmi listed the "Sports Day" (actually "Sports Week") contests for girls in classes IV and V - lemon and spoon race, three-legged race, book balancing race, etc. All completed during school hours before the major competitions. But for the boys in the same classes - short distance races mainly on the penultimate and final days! She was surprised at my questioning the disparity. And when I asked if any of their events were scheduled on the concluding and most important day one of the older boys taking a break from his practice, gloatingly replied "Oh, that's not for the girls!", much to her indignation.

 

 And we wonder why girls continue to drop out of schools despite all the incentives and facilities... 

SocialTwist Tell-a-Friend

post a comment
Note: Solicitation and commercial posts not allowed.
See Comments policy and disclaimer


0 Comments         


Please login to post a comment. If you do not have a login, please register to get one. It's simple process - takes less than a minute.

You can post comments without registering, and they will appear after approval, usually within 12 hours. We encourage you to login - then your comments appear immediately!

Post as un-registered user

Login:

Email id:

Password:

Forgot password?

Remember me on this computer.

Register:

Email id:

I have read and I agree to the Terms and Conditions and the Privacy Policy

Please check your e-mail in a few minutes for a mail with instructions to activate your account.
Note: If you do not recieve the confirmation email within a few minutes of registering, check your spam folder. Some email tools may mistakenly treat legitimate email from a new email address as spam.



comment

feedback
feedback


UNITES PROFESSIONALS: UNION FOR IT/ITES EMPLOYEES
"It took us almost three years to get a meeting with NASSCOM"
HOOPLA CLUB’S QUIZ ON AIR
HAMS quiz school students

Our Writers

Catch up on latest stories from over two dozen writers!

See our complete list of authors to spot your favourite!

Looking to advertise on our website?
Contact us for more details.
To advertise, contact us
Phone: 97409-18300